Want to Get Over Your Ex OR Get Him Back? Don’t Do This…

If you’re going through a painful breakup right now, or if you’re still not over your ex (no matter how long it’s been), today’s video is for you…

I’m going to reveal the seemingly harmless – yet most destructive – mistake women make after a relationship ends and tell you how YOU can avoid it…

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40 Replies to “Want to Get Over Your Ex OR Get Him Back? Don’t Do This…”

    1. Especially if that EX cheated on you and told it to you on your birthday several months after it has happened, like mine did. How could someone ever want such a man back? That big cross sign is a good thing :)

  • Matt, love the authenticity and empathy you demonstrated here. As well as some excellent points and advice!



  • Oh Matt, this is brilliant and touching. Makes perfect sense and uplifting. Please keep these Blogs going. Possibility is important. Don’t want my Ex back. Just intend to get over him. Looking forward to feeling normal again.

  • Yay Matt! Another video related to being a woman of high value (disguised as “how to get an ex back”). The reason your theory works is because by using the methods you recommend one can emotionally strengthen oneself… which gets one over an ex, or shows the ex in question that one is still a strong, confident, amazing person. Thanks for the reiteration.


  • I love watching your videos and as always you give great advice, however this video is a little bit distracting, the zooming in and zooming out was quite a bit annoying. It didn’t flow and it kept doing it fast, that i couldn’t even focus to what you’re saying. Plus the depth of field from the zooming in/out was distracting too, it just made it look weird. I like looking at your handsome face in a consistent and simplistic manner ;) love u!

  • Matt,

    Your parents must be so proud of you. They clearly did a great job! I absolutely agree that engaging in edifying behaviors with the folks that know you well is the way to heal from the pain of a breakup. Keep up the good work!

  • Hi Matt,
    Thanks so much for your videos! You are always there each Sunday with your awesome advice & compassion.Its obvious that you are so authentic with your feeling and so you know how it feels after a breakup. Thank you for compassion,advice,passion and your love for us.I also love your humor!
    I was guilty trying to date too soon after my divorce thinking it would help me get over him. You are so right, it did make it feel worse. When he wanted to hold my hand or put his arm around me made me miss my ex more because it just wasn’t the same. It has been 3yrs.since mydivorce and my heart has healed and I am ready to meet the new man in my life. I have been dating more now and I really appreciate all of the advice from you and your brother! XX

  • Hi Matt,

    What happens when your ex still hasn’t responded to your texts after messaging him the second round?

  • Mathew this a great article. Not just getting over an ex but for other losses in life. I think we gave all done this in our life at one time or another. I’ve learnt through my life only to hang around and be around positive people and things. I love your openess and not being judgemental to the way we can deal with our own hurt either drink drugs ect and you never push towards what you should do. So many coaches you read say go gym go on a diet ect. Yes these are good but not always what you want to do. I think small steps even if it’s a coffee with friends/family then go bigger. Great advice for anybody going through break up or other stresses in life. Love watching/reading your stuff.

  • So spot on Matt! From personal experience I have found everything you have said to be so true, not just for dealing with break ups but for losses of all kinds (death, etc). These are such difficult times when we are our most vulnerable and sensitive. They are times in which we need to be our own best friend and baby ourselves a little to deal with the pain. Thanks so much for a great video!

  • Thank you so mmuch for this video, it helped me !

    I’m from France and I just want you to know that you help people all around the world, and it’s amazing. Your advice are, in my opinion, the best advice.

  • Hey Matt! Thank you so much for this video. I can say from experience that going out and getting drunk, smoking, sex with people without a relationship etc does not help when you’ve broken up with someone and are still hurting.
    I have been getting healthy, giving up smoking and started going to the gym with PT sessions and it’s been a massive relief. Learning how to do something or achieving a task (cooking meals, reading 25 books in a year) gets you much more satisfaction than drinking excessively to forget your ex existed.
    I think the best thing people should do is ensure they’ve built a solid foundation before they get into a relationship, because these hobbies, friends, family will be what they turn to if things go bad.
    I have my party friends and I have my more chilled out friends. I’ve needed my chilled out friends so much this year and they’ve done wonders for me.

  • Hi Matt!!! Your advice is always brilliant. Also, I purchased that program months ago when you first released it, and I just wanted to say thank you, thank you, thank you. It’s such a useful guide, which gave me a lot of clarity. At the time I purchased it, I was debating whether to end the relationship or keep going. Your program helped me realize that I deserve more and that he wasn’t meeting my standard so I ended it. It was hard to do, but I did it. It is currently bolstering my resolve to get over him and get me back to feeling normal again, not heartbroken. Some days are harder than others, but it’s definitely getting better, and I’m living a happier, more fulfilled life without him in it. Thanks again, Matt xo

  • Hey Matt,
    I got your program, but it is not fit to my situation. I would be happy If you add to this program an option for a couple who are living in other countries or other cities.

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