Knowledge is one of the most attractive things we can have.
Sometimes knowledge comes in the form of what we know, other times in the form of things we can do and skills we have.
We live in a world where it’s become more necessary than ever to have eclectic knowledge and diverse skillsets.
Men are running out of ways to feel special
It’s not enough that we make money or have status, because women today already have these things.
We have to work a little harder to be interesting
We cannot afford NOT to be a Renaissance man or woman with a variety of skillsets, art forms and knowledge bases.
Knowledge and skill is a good look on anyone – as is curiosity which inevitably leads us to these things.
And attraction is sustained for longer periods of time when you’re able to keep surprising your partner.
Challenge:
Go and learn about or study something that you have no real need for. Just do something new.
When you’ve decided, leave a comment about the thing you’ve picked. Then come back and leave another at the end of the week to let me know how you’ve gotten on! Do you feel more interesting? Do you have a story because of it?
Be sure to let me know as you’ll be giving me ideas for what I can go on to do next myself!
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I learned about polar bears. Did you know that they ONLY eat fat (no carbohydrates or protein) and they don’t need to defecate or urinate for months because they don’t need to drink water?! That’s crazy!
hehehehe Chinese!!! That’s so cute hahahaha
I agree, i think we never stop growing mentally, people see it as a homework but if your board in your life you have to try new things. I know to to Rollerblade, Skate in ice, shoot with a .45 caliber, motorcycle license, Kayak, Zip-lining when i travel, snorkel, etc…. but i have future plans, become my own great healthy cook, scuba diving, learn french and a bit of Russian(it always interest me how tough it sounds) read and travel more; just open myself to LIFE in other words. Of course im a single 30yr old Female Nurse in Miami, so i CAN do those things but because im Open now more than ever than im young before i have kids. :)
Hey, Mathew HUGE fan I was wondering if you can make a video on how to become comfortable around your boyfriends friends and family…
Hi there, of course this post is truly nice and I have
learned lot of things from it about blogging.
thanks.
I subscribed to a philosophy podcast and am currently listening to “the Communist Manifesto”.
I totally agree with this! Men who have knowledge about random things makes them very sexy! Lol.. Have always been facisinated with Albert Einstein and his theory on E=mc2. Just watched a documentary. :))
My daughter and I are huge fans, we refer to you as Matty :) You have some great insight and advice, which I am always sending my 26 year old daughter. I totally agree, after 28 years of marriage my husband still surprises me with his diversity of knowledge. Keep up the great work you’re doing- you are a doll!
Sooo, the way I remember which pole the bears live at and which end the penguins live is as follows….The word Arctic comes from the Greek ἀρκτικός (arktikos), “near the Bear, northern” and that from the word ἄρκτος (arktos), meaning bear. The name refers either to the constellation Ursa Major, the “Great Bear”,or to the constellation Ursa Minor, the “Little Bear”, which contains the North Star. Basically… ‘Artic’ means bear ‘Antartic'(Anti – artic) means no bears :) simples. Enjoy.
Also I lived in Vietnam for a year and learnt a couple of words(only a couple i’m afraid)….Hello = Xin chào (Sun-chow):)however there are several ways to address people of different ages… i’ll leave that for another time
mathew.. i wanna take your opinion about something…the guy that i like is an acotor we both are actors and we worked together on stage once and it was good .. after a while he came and ask about a girl that he likes and asked me to help him with it and i did i cant say no..and then he knew that she doesnt like him she told him and he told me about it .. and after a while i thought about acting again together and he interested and get the script so i felt happy that we well act together again..and after a while he apologized to me that he will not act with me this time because he have cicumstances .. i felt bad because he was excited before .. after this we stopped talking to each other .. and after a while ha came again and start talking to me ..i really dont know what to do????? … and i feel that i cant trust him again..even i still like him….
Thanks Matthew, it is good hint not only to attract man or women, also keep ourselves live and interested with world. Yesterday for example ı bought a book about Pompei, how the volcano burst happen with illustrated book, ınbought the book because ı have a interest, if ı go there and if ı have a chance to talk with sonebody it will be interesting abd ı will attrack the people who have same or similar interest….
Hi Mattew,
I am a guy and think you are beautiful and really Hot!
Hi:Mathew congratulation in your Chanel
I love watching you when I have a chance.
How to find the right guy, I’m divorce and
I have a son he is 13 years old,I’m very
Busy whit work.Help please:)
Thank you.
The guy I’m interested in loves spaghetti so I found the best spaghetti recipe ever and hope to reel him in; one noodle at a time ;)
I totally agree with you about learning different things and not having to be a master at it just to be a more interesting person. However, I was recently criticized for not having a specific skill set such as one can’t converse with me about current events although I do not live in a cave. How should I respond or react to that?
I know that is great key importance of bringing more exciting conversation to the topics instead of how was your day. I just believe meet the wrong guy. I had this one guy talk so much about himself I thought I was in dazed. In addition, he wanted me to praise about him so often lost interest. I knew everything about him he didn’t know anything about me so tired of even starting conversation and even showing me sexy side or any feminine.
Great video (as always) :) I have a problem, though, somehow connected with the subject and I was hoping you could help me. I’m 24-year-old rather attractive student. I also take post-graguate studies in art, paint, dance and do some other stuff which I truly love. I really believe that life is very short and we should experience as many fun things as possible. The problem is, at one point, when other people learn about my my multiple interests (needless to say, by “people” I mean mostly men) they back off and are afraid to talk to me. Usually at the beginning I try to avoid some of the subjects I’m interested in so to let the other person get to know my personality and feel more comfortable around me :) I can’t lie about how much I work or what I do in my spare time. How to show guys that they don’t have to freak out just because I enjoy life in many ways? I know they think I expect simiar things of them, but the truth is – I don’t need a guy with PhD. How can I make that clear from the start? Help ;(
Hi Mathew.. I am a new fan of yours.. And I saw a lot of your YouTube videos.. Loved it.. I do agree with the look and your looks.. Smart men are sexy..!! I also look into their eyes and smile which are my favorite parts..!! – add in a hottie European and an accent..!! And make sure he is single.. With a job.. Pass a little interview without him knowing.. Lol.. Then I am good to go.. Hahaha.. I love joking around.. I am always smiling and when men approach me.. I am nice to them even if I am not interested.. I would be walking and if they say hello.. I would greet them back.. I was told that men hates it when women snobs them when they try to say hello.. Sometimes they are just trying to be nice..
Hi Matthew! Your advises were so helpful not just for me but for most of the women out there who watch your videos and read your books. I decided to learn to play ukulele and be skillful at it since I really love singing. Thank you for encouraging women to explore and learn something new. Keep it up!
Hey
Have you ever been in Portugal?
Would be lovely to see you in Lisbon for one of your shows.