So good to be back after all of the craziness of the GetTheGuy book and my show Ready For Love!
(Note: The rest of Ready For Love can be viewed on Hulu and NBC.com. Not in the US? Try downloading Hotspot Shield…)
No winning streak lasts forever. That’s part of life.
When you’re in a trough, that’s when your core confidence is really tested.
We will come back bigger and stronger than ever, because that’s what we do.
Life is just beginning again. It’s a new era.
I want to thank you for all of your love and support along the way! You have been incredible to me. We’re going to keep rocking this together. I can’t wait to get started!
Good to be back!
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Hi Matt,
Thx for the video, but honestly if you think carefully, the thing that depended on you went successful, reaching your dreamed goal of becoming a NY times best seller. That reflects that people that know your work support you and appreciates the good job that you’ve doing. On the other hand, the show didn’t depend on you or your decision, you were part of a group o people following a format. So this “failure” is not on you. Even more, because of this show, people that didn´t know you before always said to me that you were the wiser advisor (and their favorite one tho). So dont feel bad, everything that was on your hands went great, and now you are more famous in the US than before. And with this show opportunity you dare to go abroad and make your seminaries, that didnt happen before!! So, be good, we love you and support you, and even better things are about to come for you!!
Hugs!
I might protest
I’m with you if you want help protesting. Email me (found on my website).
I’m with you Matt and cannot believe the show was cancelled! To me it was such a hit and changed my life in the 1st episode. All of the matchmakers are so great and it led me to you and your teachings which is changing not just my love life but my life every single day. I cannot thank you enough for continuing to shine your light on us all. I hope the show gets picked up by another network because I applied to be on it!
Many thanks,
~Karma
I prayed for your tour but not for your show I thought it was in the bag
YES! We shall make lemonade using the lemons we’ve got!
Thank you for making use of your setback and turn it into an inspiring and motivating advice for all of us.
Really appreciate you sharing how you feel.
The best things are yet to come! Be prepared!
Mat, you’re great. Keep it up, love your blog.
Hey Matt,
As a wise man once said… I believe when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade…and try to find someone whose life has given them vodka, and have a party.
Go find your vodka & keep the smile on your face :)
S xx
So sorry to hear! Let’s take those lemons, make lemon punch and get wasted together :) xx
thanks so much for sharing these thoughts. i can understand you very well. going through a big trough myself for the last two years. i just think it had to happen because i learned so much about myself and life. and i get stronger every day.my friends wonder how i can be so happy and positive after everything i am going through. its exactly what you said: we are winners! its all about the inner attitude.
keep going. thanks for the book and the blog.
Sonja
You’re awesome Matt!
Things will keep going great for you because you mean well.
Keep in mind that even a mountain doesn’t ascend in a single steep step. It goes up and then there’s a trough and then some more gaining in height. We keep praying for you! You’ll do great. If you’re ever in Kenya hit me up, I’ll buy you coffee :)
Thank you for your guidance and may God bless you.
I f’ed up!!!!!! I was testing the book out and then I started talking about myself
And said is be away for summer
He said right away I’m away in winter and got up and left
I made the ready for love mistake !
I should have shown compromise !!!!
Hi Matt,
Its been a really good journey reading your book and viewing your videos! :) all began when one of your videos was suggested and randomly i saw it…and love it! ^_^ i was like, what? wow, he has an amazing smile, and his eyes are smilling 2…wait, what?OMG thats a really good advice..wow he is YODA! :)
Then, i bought your book, and have been, like i said a relly good jorney..! ^_^ so, please make lemonade and lets drink and have the best time ever, and start all over again!
And my opinion is that u should have your own show…coaching live, or help married couples…(not an entertaining show), but a life changing program! ^_^
*******wish u the best!
Kisses*
what is your tours like, i didn’t get to go.. im from Maine.
Sorry to hear the show has been cancelled! You were amazing on it. I downloaded the audiobook version of Get the Guy and it’s really changed my attitude about finding love. I had just about given up hope and you brought me back! I’m in the trough now too. I’ve been under employed for two years and I thought I had a good chance at a position in a department where several of my freelance colleagues work, but I didn’t even get an interview! I’m coming back stronger and better for it though. No one can keep me down. I’m making lemonade and spiking it with vodka!
Matt
So sorry to hear about the show. But as others have said and you yourself said, another opportunity is waiting.
What stunned me more is that you got the news in Philly and then did our event. You gave us all of you and then some I haven’t jumped around that much since I taught aerobics in the 80’s! God Gawd,that was fun! And you seemed to really have a blast, yet you carried this disappointing news with you. What grace…Had I known I would have hugged you harder!
By the way, it took me days to come down from that event and John has been awesome in working with me on the retreat. That is an experience I can’t wait for! (My 52nd B’day present to myself!) Just need a money fairy… who I think was mugged by the tax man… :-( But it’ll work out as
it’s supposed to.
Hugs to you! Looking forward to your next blog.
G
Hi Matthew!
I’m so sorry this happened, as I was so looking forward to watching it. Your video message was so on time, because I’m dealing with a bump in the road as well. As you said, when one door closes another one much better opens. You are just tipping the surface of your blessing Matt. :)
I was so shocked when I found out it was cancelled but my thoughts are the editing was awful plus watching ya’ll live was so different then watching on tv. Also, I believe everything happens for a reason. It may take a while to understand why but there is a reason. Without the pain we wouldn’t have joy. I love the little saying on Batman when Bruce’s father asks why do we fall and the answer is so we can learn to pick ourselves up. It’s never gonna be easy but it will be worth it :)
Hey Matt,
Hope you are ok…am going through a trough in my work life currently and totally understand what you must be going through. After literally years of working towards a goal, it is devastating when it doesn’t work out.
But…like you said, we are winners and we are going to make our goals happen. You are inspirational, and I wish you all the best in your life! We will get through these troughs together!
S
xxx
Your a mountain mathew
And mountains wont move move by a breeze…
Love you, your the best
Go Matthew! I sunk into a bit of a trough myself today, so I empathize