My #1 Tip For Every Date You Ever Go On

Do you get panicked before a date?

Do you fear you might run out of things to talk about?

Nervous but excited, hopeful but unsure, optimistic but queasy… Going on dates can be scary.

But what if you never had to have these feelings ever again?

Today I’m going to share with you my “long­-term” approach to always be ready, and to show up in a calm and easygoing state, ready to have fun.

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32 Replies to “My #1 Tip For Every Date You Ever Go On”

  • When you started talking about your seminars it reminded me of one you did in L.A. and for some reason you kept glancing over at someone or something and all I could think was, He’s nervous. Let’s face it we all get nervous if we didn’t we wouldn’t be human it’s how we deal with those nerves that make or break us. I for one am still dealing with handling my nerves maybe one day I will conquer that :)
    I have like a million + 1 thoughts on this AND I have no clue where to start BUT if you met up with me I could probably share them with you. If you even read this. I’m sure someone will and I hope you are having a wonderful day :)

  • Hey Matt I hope you continue making for videos for a long while as they have become something that I look forward to every week now. I enjoy the advice you give and it gives my Sunday more enjoyable because of your videos.

  • Thank you so much for this wonderful advice, Matt. Recently I have not been very interested in dating, but in the second half of this year I will have to look for another job. When I was assigned to my present boss (in the course of an organizational change), I perceived right away that the chemistry between us was not good, and I full of panic tried to get away from him and felt absolutely desperate in every job interview. Needless to say, this strategy did not work out.

    But now if I say that I keep my eyes open and try to learn as much as I can, and any interview I have is practice material for my dream job – then this takes away the pressure. It is really a miracle. Thank you so much!!!

  • Matt,
    I know I don’t comment nearly as much as I should
    But I want you to know that I really look forward to your videos
    each week. You’re innovative, honest, informative, supportive
    AND eye candy. Wow. Thank you for thinking of us & helping us
    get through these singles years with confidence in our trembling
    hearts. Oh btw I also love your brother’s blog & thoughts (Jameson,
    You’re every bit as wonderful behind the scenes – I can hear your
    contagious smiles. Love it, guys! Oh I’ve been to TWO seminars

  • Matt, you are the master at getting your point across succinctly in your videos. This past video hit the mark! We “cram” more often than we realize. Thanks for the reminder to continue preparing for what’s to come.

  • Thanks Matt!

    Your so right, always thinking we have to be something were not 8)….
    and on a side note, your arms look really nice in that shirt!

    1. I also thought you looked a bit sad at the end. I hope you know how much we appreciate you, Matt!!! You touch so many people’s lives in a positive way, even when you can’t personally see all the results. Everyone who is close to me hears me go on about what “Matthew Hussey, my relationship expert” says about various aspects of relationships!

  • This is great all round advice for living your life to the fullest – thanks Matt!
    I love how the advice you give in your videos can often be applied to all areas of life, and not just dating, but I am working on that too, thanks to your YouTube channel and this blog.
    You’re the best! :)

  • Hi Matt!
    thanks for all your help and advice…loved coming to see you in Toronto with your tour.. had to eave early.. but next time hope your back for hug and a kiss.. havent found the ‘this guy: yet… but glad that im able to communicate better with them as i meet more…:)

  • That was a great message & really affected the way I’m going to handle the way I think about myself & handle my “journey”. Thanks so much,

  • Hi Matt, Thanks for another valuable insight. Dating can be tough and your support makes the process much easier: you’re the angel on my shoulder. K

  • This video really resonates with me. I want to grow and continue to become a better person or the person I was meant to be. That special guy who comes along in my future is going to be so lucky because I will have been working all along to develop my character, social skills, health etc. I will be practising and preparing. Thanks Matt. Truly beautiful advice.

  • Thank you so much for this video I really needed it! I have a date with this guy on Wednesday and I was totally gonna blow it off just because I was terrified.. I started to get really scared and was just about to send this guy a lame excuse in a text.. I don’t like this guy and he is too old but your video made me start to think about this date as a practice date. A just for fun date, because I definitely need the practice. So thank you for giving back my positive thinking and giving me courage!

  • I definitely feel the pressure when I have a date with a guy I am really attracted to. You are right — as soon as I start looking at it as practice for where I want to be in 6 months, it takes the pressure off. I have realized that I need to grow more before I can create the kind of relationship I want with a partner, so it is all practice at this point. :)

  • Fabulous information; as always!!! Your information was priceless and valuable to me on this video. Because I plan on meeting two particular men I’ve never met and when you’ve been celebrating and fully living life; you (the person) resonates with glow. Please know how important your information is to us; I have printed out your numerous blogs to refer to remain refreshed in addition to having your book and having signed up over one year ago for your program and attending your one day seminar. Please continue to provide the encouraging and valuable information we need and hunger for. Thank you for all that you do!!!!

  • I love learning from and watching your videos; just as much as you love making them. So, please don’t consider NOT making them. You’re gifted and I turn to ONLY you for all advice. No one else compares!!! Now, when I finally meet someone (several years delayed due to my sister being very ill) and after I have continually watched and read all your video’s and blogs; I will gratefully go on to how to Keep The Guy. I paid for that program over one year ago and am grateful it will be there when I need it. Your video’s are fabulous, insightful, inspirational and unique. Please continue to provide them!!!!

  • I’m intrigued by this idea. Never thought I could apply to dating but it does. Thanks for the reminder… there are no short cuts… reaping what we sow Love it!

  • Great advice! I love the concept that if you are already prepared, you don’t have to GET prepared. I’m finding this helps me in staying physically fit – if I think about the possibility of meeting “the right guy” anywhere at anytime, and how I want to look great at that moment, it helps me stay on track with my workout routine. This also reminds me of a favorite saying I’ve heard: “Don’t focus on finding the right one; focus on BEING the right one.”

  • I wanted to “like” so many of the comments below. Watch every one of your videos and look forward to them. I’m finally learning which days of the week new content gets posted so I don’t check your blog every single day any more :) Also, I got to attend one of your live seminars, have read your book and first found you by watching everything on YouTube after a friend suggested your name. Excellent content (well, maybe not the graffiti post but it was entertaining anyway!)

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