Here’s a quick video on the hardships of life, why you need to find what you love, stick it out and keep going.
In the interview mentioned, Jerry was asked if his work was still difficult, to which he replied, “your blessing in life is when you find the torture you’re comfortable with.”
We can take this one of two ways; to be either depressing or empowering.
One of the great myths of our society is that things get easier.
–Get rich quick and your life will be easy…
–Find a relationship and your life will be easy…
–Six-pack abs and your life will be easy…
But life doesn’t work like that! It’s not that simple.
Life stays difficult.
I see my job as a coach not as helping make people’s lives easier, but helping people graduate from doing hard things they hate, to doing hard things they really enjoy.
For me, running GetTheGuy is no easier than it was 5 years ago. More opportunity can mean more work, but I enjoy it more, and that’s the difference.
The aim isn’t to make an easy life…
It’s to find something you love doing – a torture you can endure, and something that energises you.
With that said, sometimes you’ll be doing something hard that you don’t find fun, but just because it’s not ‘fun’, doesn’t mean it can’t be fulfilling.
As another personal example, I love boxing – not because while I’m doing it I’m having so much ‘fun’ – but because at the end of it I feel amazing and I get excited about going the next day.
Find a form of ‘torture’ you can enjoy.
Find something that can become part of your DNA and give it everything you’ve got.
Don’t stop because it’s hard work or because it’s not paying off right now. Keep doing it because you know it’s something that drives you at your core.
You’ll have noticed by now that GetTheGuy is bigger than just love life and dating advice. It’s about creating a life you love.
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