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45 Replies to “#1 Weird Way to Get Him Back”

  • Well, for the first time I don’t know if I agree.. You see l always do that, the no contact period, automatically. and still, it didn’t make him come back for good, maybe just for a couple of times because he felt he missed me, and also it didn’t make it easy for me to move on, it still took a lotttt of time. But in the end I agree that staying in touch is worse.

  • Hello everybody,

    I want solutions from men or women who past through the same hardship.
    I need your help please.
    How to recover from falling hard in self esteem and gain respect for myself and from others ?

    I am 26 years old girl and I had a perfect reputation (i wasn’t aware of that before it was gone) : never had boyfriends, never dated never went to a party, never did anything bad actually not even smoking or even saying curse words. I work with disabled children and i am shy.

    I felt extremely lonely and sad to not have anybody with me while all the girls around already had babies etc… I thought it was because i wasn’t attractive (which is not the case but i didn’t realize it), people thought i was strange because i was never with a boyfriend so i started to become self concious about that, they treated me like a freak.

    So i made the biggest mistake of my life : my sister forced me to date one of her friend who just broke up with his girlfriend of 8 years which was not very nice from her she lied to me telling me he loved me etc… and me out of desperation i believed her. i never went to a date and was lost.

    And i basically sold myself to him before even he showed a sign of wanting to be with me i was so desperate i tried all the bad ways to impress HIM (i feel so bad) i didn’t know how to be with him as i didn’t have any experience with men and it never happened to me. I tried to read on internet what to do and that was a BIG mistake !! i dressed slutty, i even sent nudes pics i talked about sex i even invented past relationships i never had because i was afraid he will mock my inexperience. And believe me or not i even forced him to take my virginity in his car (i want to kill myself) because i thought he will see i am a good girl since he then knew i was virgin(!) but interested in sex so promising him a good time if he marries me (i’m crying while writing), i was afraid he would think i am frigid. He took it and dumped me the next day.

    I feel so bad i didn’t want him to think i was inexperience i was afraid he would laugh at me, so i wanted to act as if i was experimented to not feel ashamed of my virginity.

    Now he said about it to everybody in the city even my family, everybody laugh at me i walk with shame and want to kill myself everyday

    I wasn’t aware of my very good reputation before i thought everybody mocked my inexperience, but then they said why did you do that ? you could have married anybody ! now they just think i am a whore it makes me suicidal.
    I even quit my job because of shame.

    How to recover from that and make them see that i am not like that and will i find a husband even if he knows that ? NOBODY respect me even my own family and talk very bad in a harsh tone to me.
    I am bullied badly I don’t know how to face my bullies and how to face him.

    I don’t understand why a lot of girls did far worse with far more people but people think it’s worse for me than for them :(

    i still can’t forgive myself and cry everyday.

    i deeply regret and feel i don’t deserve to have any man in the future, i feel worthless. I am scared if i find a husband he will think i am trash and not marry me.

    Help me please.

    1. I am so sorry you are surrounded by such unkind people. I do not have any great ideas about how to make things better but want you to know that your post is not being ignored.

      1. Hello Ashamed i m really sorry for you and as Su said your post is certainly not being ignored. I think every woman in the western world has done mistakes in this area. Some learned maybe earlier on in their lives and you learn now. What doesn t kill us makes us stronger. You may not feel like this is true right now. But it is true. You will see. I wish you could have had the perfect mr frog turning into a prince as a first sexual partner. But i don t think any woman ever has that. Hold your head up high little princess and never allow for this again. Show your family that they hurt you with their behavior. You might have made a mistake but now they are making a mistake by not showing you unconditional love. Telling someone they made a mistake is ok, hurting them is a different thing. I wish you wouldn t have left your job. Chin up, start running (if you are in the forest alone scream or yell out your feelings) or swimming, do push ups and get strong. Maybe start boxing like Matt who knows maybe it helps. Be strong on your own you don’t need anyone else. And look for another job asap. Will keep your thoughts occupied. And if it s only to save enough money to go to a big city and make your own life come true. For you seem to come from a smaller place where people know everyone close knit and are judgemental. Get out of there if you can. Find friends who are supportive and let you develop and don t judge you for every little mistake you make. Life is full of mistakes. We do a mistake, we learn, and we move on. For every door that closes a better one opens. Your guardian angels will pull you through. I think Matt has this saying that you should not invest more into a guy as him investing into you. I d translate this into you having to quickly and absolutely forget about this ass as he is not worth a single thought from you. He must be very immature and stupid he should be ashamed for what he did to you not the other way around. Much love to you!!!

    2. my name is TT . my first guy was same your story but I was lucky to get out of his rude after a year. this is my email( thuy.vt204@gmail.com) i want to share my motivation to you, because we have same age, and same story. you are deserved more than that my sweet heart.
      My first guy told me to quit school and live with him and he will take care everything. i didnot agree it, even no sex in his car. we stopped talking for 2 months. after that, he sent the video of him with the new girl who younger than him 10 years (she studied in my same school). I saw the video and i cried for my one year to trust him. He texted me: the one fuck up everything is you not me. you are fucking stupid girl. if you don’t let me take your virginity, other guy will take it soon. if you don’t care your boy and you don’t use it, you will lose it. that’s my straight life. I’m done for wasting time to talk to you and make you believe. i’m free now, i will do whatever i want. forgiev me if i start to talk to another girl. you losed me TT”
      He continued to send me his girl in bar with friends and insisted on everything was my faults. I was keeping being nicely to answer him back but the more i keep calm, the more he get upsets and keep being rude.
      I realize i cried more than I Smiled for 1 year. why do I keep respect to a person even not do the same to me?

  • My boyfriend left me saying he can’t do relationships right now which I believe because he wasn’t ready for a relationship when we started dating but he was the one who said he was expecting more from me. I wasn’t ready too but I figured some way out to make it work somehow because I like him and I was so afraid of losing him. He had some things going on, he stopped using antideps and started a new job which is so stresfull for him but I think that he made a quick and wrong choice for leaving me. Everything was normal two days before he left me. And I believe that if he liked me enough which he always say that he does and he wants to be in a relationship with me everytime I ask him when we were together, he wouldn’t break up with me. Do you think that I can get him back?

  • Matthew, what about this situation: the guy treated you badly (more out of immaturity and used to not being in a relationship), so you break it off. Months pass with bare minimum to no contact, and then you discover he has blocked YOU on Facebook like you’re the one who broke his heart. Completely being cut off for no reason. What would you do in this situation if you want the guy to know you cared and didn’t want to hurt him? I didn’t want a messy break but suddenly it is…

  • Thanks a lot for publishing this awesome article.

    I’m a badass fan of Game of Thrones.
    I’ve been watching it since it came. It feels crazy watching it, isn’t
    it ? You just can’t expect what’s gonna happen next. You can’t tell for sure about your favourite character being alive for the next episode.
    And talk about the graphic violence! Man it’s just unbelievable.

    My favourite character is Melisandre.

    I really liked your article and will definitely share this on my Facebook.

    Thanks for a great article.

  • He left me for someone else, and cut me out of his world completely blocked my calls even moved( in with her)

  • Matt-Man,
    You have changed my dating life. I followed your advice… no contact… and he sought me, fought for me and respects me.
    Thank you for giving me the tools to be grounded in love
    Lisa B

  • I really love how you actually TELL US the information you are titling and not leading us through this maze of words to a…”If you purchase this 300.00 dollar packet of video tapes” ending to the topic. It very refreshing and MUCH appreciated!

  • I’ve been dating a man who is older than myself and because it’s also long-distance, we only spend an average of a week per month together. Everything was going great…in fact, we spent the week of Christmas together just recently.
    Most importantly, the last night we were together, he told me that he loved me and that he hadn’t said that to anyone in the past since he was married to his wife. (about 17 years ago), and also told me that he really wants things to work out between us and i told him i did as well. WELL, the next day he left to Florida for a 3 week vacation. We exchanged messages over the next 2 days and then suddenly…NOTHING! NO messages and NO calls nor is he answering any of mine. I am devastated because I love him too but I am completely LOST and have no clue to what is going on with him or him and I for that matter. We never even talked about taking a break or anything, I mean The Man Just Told Me He Loved Me and that was a big thing for him after all those years. IS THERE ANYONE WHO HAS ANY IDEA WHAT IS GOING ON?

  • I really need more help with my situation. Any guidance would mean the world to me. I’ve read amd and researched a ton at this point.

    My situation is unique. We met online during covid in late March. We had an intense month long relationship during (meaning dates were at his house and each was at least 12 hours). He broke it off 1 month ago after about 5 weeks of bliss.
    In addition to the pandemic he has a lot right now and did not feel prepared for a relationship – (dad recently passing, broken engagement 2 months prior, mom with breast cancer and job change).
    He initially ghosted me until I confronted him for an explanation. I didn’t Express what I should have, I should have been understanding and communicated that I would like to connect later when things for him are better. Instead I acted hurt, accepted his decision and just went no contact.

    How can I work to regain attraction and have him approach me again?
    I did initially get hurt by the break up, but quickly let it go and went total no contact.

    My first outreach was fathers day sending a brief nice note that I realize it was a tough day. He responded with “Thank you Tyler” nothing more.
    Before the break up he wasn’t responding at all though…
    what do I do? I know I found someone special – he expressed the same – but I feel he got spooked and just couldn’t handle another responsibility at this time.
    He isn’t approaching me and its been over 30 days since I initiated no contact. I’m in this for the long haul, but I’m confused

    My guy friends tell me I need to tell him I care and that our timing was off and I’d like to reconnect when things change. But all advise says I should either just wait for him to come around or that I should lure him back in with infrequent kind texts.

    I need some help as times aren’t normal and this man is important to me.

  • Dear Matt, My ex dumped me in June last year and things have gone downhill since then. I have tried to fix things and only made it worse ever since. He recently blocked me on Facebook,Whatsapp &SMS/Call as he didn’t want to be mean to me anymore and felt I made him a worse person when I push with my questions on a certain subject and he doesn’t like that he is mean. He said he tried to be nice but he can’t anymore. I forgave him when he said those mean things because I know it was said in anger and frustration when I kept pushing and asking questions and he kept changing the topic. Its been 2 days since the block and and he hasn’t seen or responded to my msgs on other platforms. His last words were “I can’t be nice anymore, and I don’t want to be mean so I will be nothing to you”. I know I went too far and pushed too much on Sunday and that I should give him space but this block feels like he won’t unblock me ever. Previously he has blocked me 3 times before the last being in August and he stopped after knowing it hurt me alot. But this feels different. It feels like a doorslam for good. What do I do? He is very stubborn hard to convince without logic and change and I don’t think even that will do it. He is dating someone new too.

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