#1 Weird Way to Get Him Back

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45 Replies to “#1 Weird Way to Get Him Back”

  • Didn’t work. He used the “We were on a break” excuse and slept with other girls before he ever called.

  • Matthew, after the guy I was seeing for four months told me that due to our busy schedules he didn’t think it was ‘fair to commit to seeing each other’, I didn’t text. I haven’t contacted him at all and unfollowed him on all social media but Facebook. He hasn’t contacted me either. It’s been three weeks. What now? I’m not even sure I want him back but my pride is hurt and I want to get over him for good of nothing else. The pain is still there.

  • My husband argue wuth me,when he wants more sex. after alone day at work drive him crazy. he more addictive to me and love cuddle. We even had a son together he 7 months he can’t take his hands off me he really enjoy our marriage but sometime we have ours good day and bad bit ot start get better anyway. Spin time for kids take them out sbow them how to cook nutritionist meals to boost energy. Not to rush to grow up to fast enjoy being a kids and teenage. I have family who want to destroy our marriage because they’re not happy with their lives so they’re do anything for me to come back to town to see my 7 months son

  • that is the first video that I don’t like from you Matt

    leaving the one you love is the most stupid way to get him back

    it’s true but your video is really incomplete.the one you love may decide to leave you forever if you leave him

    I don’t agree with this video.when you leave someone you love, he may think that he was not enough for you or you may never forgive his past etc.so “he may decide to leave you forever”

    moreover, when you leave the one you love it’s very awkward to initiate contact after a long time

    I think this way you mentioned in your video is for timid people

    people need to know the reality if there is something wrong in their relationship.they have to be able to take their heart when they leave the one they love.they must say goodbye to eachother

    so why should they leave him,wondering what happened?!!!!!!!!is it over ?should I be with this new guy I recently like?!!

    ofcourse all people have this right to be independent and the time to be on themselves.we should leave them to enjoy their loneliness and problems they like to think about and solve

    but this is very stupid:
    “leave your ex in order to experience addiction to his feelings.so he may come to you”

    tell me MATTHEW:
    how do you assure me that this guy is not filling his addiction somewhere else,from other girls,or he is internalizing his feelings and is depressed??????????!!!

    1. All he’s saying is if the guy left you don’t continue to feedbacks ego by taking his calls and texts and meet I g up with him randomly. If he dumped you but you still give into his whims you devalue yourself and he will still look for another girl who has more self esteem.
      If he comes with a genuine offer to mend your relationship and not just chit chat to validate himself this might be different.

      1. I agree with Deanna, if you leave and he comes back with some valid contribution to the relationship rather than just idle chit chat, that’s good, otherwise let it go!

    2. I’m going to have to agree with Asal.

      My ex of 7 years broke up with me, we spoke for a bit, but then I stopped communicating. He never looked back. It’s almost a year since we broke up.

      It’s been a painful journey, I won’t lie. He never even gave me closure.

  • Hey Matt!

    I’m currently in the no contact period, but his birthday is coming up. What do I do? I’m thinking of dropping him a casual “happy birthday” text..

  • How long should the no contact period last? And should he be ignored if he reaches out? Bit more info please :)

  • That’s good, I make it already, and I don’t want that guy in my life anymore. I even left my Dungeons and dragons sessions just to don’t see him again.

  • If a guy leaves you, he left you… You´re not his dream girl or the woman he really wants to marry. It´s The Rules 101. Finally, Matt is understanding that there is no way to convince a man to like you or love you.

    Matt has some good advice, but ultimately he always fails on the most basic – That´s why his clients always end up heartbroken. I recommend reading THE RULES BOOK and following it with your heart. It´s the only true advice that always works – forever.

  • What about the part where he is the one who broke up and it’s no contact from him ever since? You don’t even get to initiate any no contact period.

  • I was just talking with my best friend, about how sad I feel about my break up, and saw this video,
    He broke up with my a month ago and it was his idea to not have contact at all, I have tried to not write him but its hard, and I wanna stop feeling sad all the time and thinking that we may get back together. we are not even connected through social media, but its hard to not know how to move on how to forget him, we were together for four years and a half, lived together and we had plans to move to another country and get married, and now Im just without future plans, and feeling like he move on so quickly because he hasnt tried to contact me or state that he is in fact sad! heeelp

  • Hi Matt:
    I took your first series, great information. This video is spot on, there is an addiction that happens when you sleep with a man. But I believe it is more than emotional, it is chemical, especially for the woman. Nature is saying BOND with this man, (you might get pregnant) and biochemistry takes over once there is intercourse –but no where do I see this information? Does it have to be discovered still? Thank-you for this video, you cut to the chase, it is so true and you are helping so many women. Thank-you!

  • my ex and i ended over a year ago and we have twin boys together i watched the intro video of trying to over come heart break / get him back you said that there needs to be a no contact period. is there another way because i see him 4 -6 times a week and have to talk to him. how can one get over heart break when they are continuously in contact with their ex

  • Matt so how do i do the no contact if he works with me? We see each other every day, arrive here the same time, leave the same time,make coffee together, see each other a lot in the passages.I cant completely avoid him. How should I do this without losing him as my friend while doing the no contact? We are still good friends now.

    And also will this work if we were not officially in a relationship but we were in love for quit a long time and really loved each other?

    And the other thing is he is back with his ex? Will it still work or should i not even try?

    I really want him back!

    Please advise

  • Matthew, what do you do when you live in the same house? How do I achieve this? If he knocs my room door for small talks, to joke around, etc? Not an option to move just right now, don’t have the money yet, will have in a few months. Could you recommend me something? An strategy? Thank you.

  • You don’t have links to what to do to get over him. In the ten months that he’s been dating somebody else (which started when we were together over 2 years, living together most of that time), there have only been about 4 weeks that we haven’t had sex. Even after he proposed to her. I’m done. I’m done competing with that manipulative skanky bunny-boiler. Done being the side-booty. She can have him – even though he tells me she doesn’t satisfy his sexual needs like I did. I think I’ve been hanging on for a while just because I didn’t want her to “win”.

    I want to remember all the narcissistic, unhealthy, stupid things he’s done, the times he let me down, and get over him. You start with “get him back or get over him.” Where’s that part of the story?

    1. I think in the no contact period you work on yorself, try to understand your own patterns but also needs. Do lots of sport and build up a healthy social circle. Date other guys. Get rid of your addiction to him. And than decide what you want: really wanna get him back or wanna get (and by than probably already are at least in part) over him :-)

  • You say thete are 2 types of women who wont order ur $97 Get Him Back series. No. There are 3. #3 are the women who must decide whether to pay their lite bill or get their love back and seriously? What man wants a woman who is living in the dark and doesnt kno how to manage her affairs?

  • Hi Matthew,

    Thanks for all the videos you put up :)

    What do you recommend if that person is your boss?

    I’m looking for a new job (although he doesn’t want me to leave and he found a new more interesting role for me so that I would stay…) but until then, what do I do? I have started going on dates but actually I’d like to enjoy my single life a little more + I have no need/want to be in another relationship right now.

    I tried to distance myself by having a chat to him, which resulted in both of us really opening up to each other on a much deeper level and actually becoming closer – the opposite of what I was trying to do…

    He invests a lot of time and effort in with me but I feel he is conflicted (partly due to his blue print + a little past hurt). His actions don’t match his words.

    He has been checking in with me daily. If I start a no contact period now doesn’t that send the wrong message? especially if his blue print is shifting and he is opening up to me?


  • That’s so true because when i used to feed his addiction he used to uses the good in me to stay so that he never loses someone who loves him that mich .. but when i took this break with a clear breakup and i moved on without any contact he came back wondering where i’ve been and if i took a step to be with someone else .. but i want to ask you how i’m gonna trust that this time it’s the one and only time to be together

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