How To Get the Guy Podcast

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle):

After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain. We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered: The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them. How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship. The danger of “playing house” in

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to:  • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).  • Increase your love for life.   Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life… Please… watch this before you do anything else. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. .