How To Be Sexier And Smarter At The Same Time

Knowledge is one of the most attractive things we can have.

Sometimes knowledge comes in the form of what we know, other times in the form of things we can do and skills we have.

We live in a world where it’s become more necessary than ever to have eclectic knowledge and diverse skillsets.

Men are running out of ways to feel special

It’s not enough that we make money or have status, because women today already have these things.

We have to work a little harder to be interesting

We cannot afford NOT to be a Renaissance man or woman with a variety of skillsets, art forms and knowledge bases.

Knowledge and skill is a good look on anyone – as is curiosity which inevitably leads us to these things.

And attraction is sustained for longer periods of time when you’re able to keep surprising your partner.

Challenge:

Go and learn about or study something that you have no real need for. Just do something new.

When you’ve decided, leave a comment about the thing you’ve picked. Then come back and leave another at the end of the week to let me know how you’ve gotten on! Do you feel more interesting? Do you have a story because of it?

Be sure to let me know as you’ll be giving me ideas for what I can go on to do next myself!

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  • Mr.hussey I would like to get some advice on my situation with a guy bc he is something special to me and in the beginning he liked me and hei knew this bc he would always syare at me and smile…..and one day I found him on social media and I followed him and he requested to follow me back and I accepted.I went furthermore to send him a private message that said hi qith a smiley face and I know he read it and he disnt respond ar all to it and he unfollowed me too so I did the same.after that its been completwly akward and in one instance I had to sit in front of him and I acted like a five year old.i think he has xowarsice and I am actually considering to apologize for my behavior to him.please mr.bussey can you give your opinion and or imput to my situation.

  • Thanks for the great advice!! I have in fact, over the last few months, been teaching myself another language; Turkish. Having watched your video I now know that I’m definately going to keep it up :) xx

  • I have viewed a couple of your vedios and I’m inspired thus to improve in my confidence arena, also to learn something new on a constant basis for conversation building, I do find your vedios enlightened and usually find something new in each one viewed, thank you

  • After I originally left a comment I seem to have clicked the -Notify me when new comments are added- checkbox and from now on each time a comment is added I get 4 emails
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  • hey matthew,i just watch your video and this is exciting and interesting as ever!im always intrigued of indian dance and songs i found them really ravishng so i was starting to learn theyre language and eventually join a dance workshop!and currently im curious about protocol of zion.his subject will blow ur mind away,actually my boyfriend introduce me to this topic,lol anyway wish u more luck!and Godspeed!xoxo

  • hey :)
    this video motivated me to learn more and to do more with my life, thank you. I think it’s time to do that class at the local gym.

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  • heya
    i have recently been on a date with this guy who i am very attracted to. we live quite far from each other so we dont get to see each other much. however, after the first date he just wanted to see me again. so i take that as a good sign. but now that im back were i live we talk more over the phone via texts and i feel like he sometimes plays various mind games with me (like one minute hes really really freindly and the next i feel like im just another girl) sometimes hes abit too flirty and i don’t know how to react should i flirt back or should i just brush it off and talk about something else.
    iv been hurt by a few guys so i have my guard up abit and im not ready to get hurt again. if he seems like hes not interested or he thinks im easy then i should move on now before i fall for him more right?

    need your help please!!!

  • Hey Matthew; thank-you for the video! As a result, I’ve learned some hip-hop dancing. Thank you for the motivation. I already even feel sexier! hahaha

  • Hey Matthew; thank-you for the video! As a result, I’ve begun to learn how to hip-hop dance. Thank you for the motivation. I already even feel sexier! hahaha

  • I think your videos are great but you’re missing out. People vary according to thier morals and beliefs so your advices are great but they don’t necessarily work in a place like Egypt. Egyptian guys are too complicated for girls to understand and deal with specially if those girls are already smart, beautiful, rich, so into fashion, they know how to cook, dance, they read a lot, I mean its tough over here.

  • I’m learning origami! I though it could be fun if in a boring moment of a date I brought it up and did it with a napkin or something

  • I learned that bring up my gender (trans guy) that it gets people curious and is a good ice breaker and conversation starter

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