In the video below I talk about one of the things I love most about my new show: that you can go out the very same night and practice what you learnt on the show.
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Well tonight is Friday night. And I want to ask you a simple question:
Are you going to spend tonight analysing, or taking action?
So many times in my events women will spend their time analysing a current situation, instead of figuring out how to go and take action that might bring them a new situation. Or at least figuring out what action they can take in their current one. Analysing is often just another form of waiting, and you know what I say constantly:
At any given moment you are either WAITING or CREATING.
I want to make sure that this Friday night you are out there creating. So here are three ways you can make this Friday night count.
1. Go somewhere you wouldn’t normally go.
Choose a place to go this evening that isn’t on your normal list of top places to go. Women are always asking me where to meet good men. Well you might just find somewhere with a better quality of man than your average place. At the very least you’ll meet men you don’t bump into usually because you won’t be at your regular. And if it sucks, well it’s one more place you’ve been to that you know not to go to again.
2. Choose one thing you want to get better at tonight.
You may decide your eye contact isn’t great, that your glance needs to be a little sexier, or more prolonged. Great! Focus on that. You may decide you’re really bad at being approachable. No problem. Just spend the night getting closer to the people you’re attracted to, maybe even just saying the word ‘hi!’ when you’re standing next to someone so that they have a cue to start. Just focus on doing one thing better tonight rather than adding 10 new tools to your belt.
3. Introduce rest times.
Treat it like you would treat a productive day at work. You can’t work for 8 hours straight and remain productive the entire time. Nor is it easy to stay out all night and remain sociable and proactive the entire time. Work in 10-15 minutes bursts. Make it a game i.e. “For the next 10 minutes I’m going to talk to people, then I’m going to chat with my friends, dance, relax… whatever”. This is also a good technique for ensuring you don’t look desperate. When you know you’re not going to be chatting to some new guy for the next hour, you look more confident and in control because you know you’re not sticking around.
Question of the day!
What are your plans tonight? And how are you going to try to use them to move forward in your love life? Let me know in the comments below.
Enjoy your night lovelies!
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