For many years I’ve talked about women “making the first move”.
However, until now, there’s something I’ve failed to clarify…
It’s a key piece that will allow you to avoid the #1 biggest mistake women make when talking to guys, it’ll show you how to get him doing the chasing, as well as create a “push-pull” effect to skyrocket his attraction.
You’ll have fun with this one!
Love the puns! :-). This is so real—perfect!!
Please come to Australia – we have lots of dolphins here :)
Loved this. recognized this from the past and yes it does work. going to put this to good use.;-)
This is such an entertaining video. The theory totally makes sense and when you started trying to find a comparison sea creature I was literally laughing out loud. Great information, outstanding presentation. Thank you for the insight and the giggle.
In the back of my mind I always wondered how long you were suppose to linger during these interactions. Makes perfect sense! I think this may be ONE of my favorites out of all your vids. I’m loving the practicality!
This is great advice especially since you give tips on how to actually do this with body language and so on. Can you give advice how to do the same thing but not in a club setting.
What do you do with someone who you see at work or school or around the neighborhood?
Now if I could only make that cute little dolphin sound…
: )
Wow such good advice. Thank you!
Now I understand “Push/pull” better. This was a good video, very concrete in its message and ability to take something from it and use later. Love you! I am writing a poem about some of this stuff I will share soon… Morticia and Gomez are the perfect couple!
Hahaha that was fantastic!! Not only extremely entertaining but very informative, this is something I will definitely be applying when I go out. I feel like this video has given me much more confidence to go out there and make it happen.
Thank you Matt :)
The push/pull method creates the perfect amount of sexual tension, high-value & curiosity…cannot wait to try!
You are so adorable. So what do you do when you have to go at this alone? I have no single friends to go out with. That and I’m not into going out to bars alone, that’s just scary.
That great for a new meeting of someone you might be attracted to…to set up the chase… but how do you get someone you already know to do that how can i amp things up to get more contact from him by phone etc?
Lol! Hook and bait and then a lame ending ;)
I love my uncle Mattey cakes! What organic advice u give!
Matt what about guys who try to be near you when you’re among other people, constantly flattering you by focusing on features or elements of your appearance/ image that are important to you and make you feel great about yourself – ..and them…- but then never ask you out or leave you any message that’s not about practical matters…In fact the only time i got a guy like that to text me to go out was when i used your 8 magic words….so does that mean that he’s attracted and interested on some level, but is afraid on some level to take things further, or does he simply flatter to be flattered back?! Is there a chance he does all of this flattering and approaching completely unaware of what it actually does to a woman!?
Hey I met this guy online we met up twice once he bought me money to pay a lawyer after t told him about a house problem that I was having second time he was in the area wanted see me.we talked about us wanting to get married having kids unfortunately I had to have a hysterectomy because of a health issue then his persute slowed down a lot he uses to call every second of his day he gets a chance to talk to me so I’m wondering if to let it go because he wants things I won’t be able to give to him? Then he’s always busy we’ve been chatting since august of this year til this morning we had a argument he thought I was messaging him about sex and we never had sex though just sex text in sense I was asking him if he had any single friends because I had a girlfriend who asked me to ask him and he told me he doesn’t like childish behavior I’m like huh??? Please help me cus he told me don’t call him or tet him today cus he’s upset
F…ck…. Why does dating have to be so strategic and difficult? Why can’t we just be who we are and eventually two like minded people fall in love because it is just easy being with each other because they are truly compatible.
So damn true. Since when did it become so technical. smh
This is awesome! I tend to initiate a lot, and I forget to let the guy do some of the chasing. Point well taken!
I bought your book “Get the Guy” and I first saw Stephen on pof due to him looking at my profile. I did what I normally never do; I complimented his beautiful eyes. He immediately wrote me back and from there I allowed him to be the man and be chivalrous. I was never clingy, was supportive, and very light and sweet. We are both single parents of one child each. His daughter just so happens to live in a different state. The times we spent together were great. We only dated for about 3 weeks before he left to visit his daughter for Christmas. During this week of him being gone I barely heard from him. Even though I was feeling hurt I still tried to stay positive and be understanding. Well, he was supposed to come home for the weekend and didn’t tell me that his plans changed. It hurt again that he didn’t tell me until I asked. Then he texted me yesterday saying he was driving and when I asked him to call me he said he would. I never heard from him. Finally today I called him around noon and asked him why he hasn’t called me. He said sorry and then asked if I was upset. I finally asked him why he wasn’t calling me and why he even asked me to be his girlfriend if he was acting this way. He told me that maybe he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. Before he left to visit his daughter we were doing so great. He wrote me all the time and would say things like “hello my love”. Where did things go wrong? Did I do something wrong for him to change his mind while he was away? I’m so confused. Please help me understand.
Hi Jasmine, my humble suggestion, never ask a guy “why didn’t you call me?” Never. You put the ball in his court now, if he wants to spend time with you, he will get back to you eventually. If not, you know where you stand.
Three weeks is not enough time to get to know someone well. I am not saying you can’t fall in love in 3 weeks. It sure happens, but there are certain type of people who fall out of love as fast as they fall in love, especially when things don’t go their way. So his calling you “my love” might not be real. Just go about your own business. If he wants to see you again, don’t make it too easy for him. Because he broke your heart, he has to earn his way back. If you are in touch with him on facebook or on another social media page, just be friendly. Don’t act like you are angry or upset, or you will push him even further away. For future reference, if the guy is away and you want to talk to him, just text him a funny joke or a dirty joke (this is if you did it) to let him know that you are thinking of him and you are there for him, and leave it at that. Just remind him yourself in a cheerful way, never question. Trust me on this. Best of luck.