So you want to keep your man from cheating do you? In my experience men cheat for two reasons:

1. Boredom

2. Insecurity

Both of these lead men to other women to give them what they need.

It might be a lack of affection, it might be a lack of love, that he doesn’t feel respected, it might just be that he wants that tingling sensation of being with someone who finds him sexy.

Being cheated on is not something any women wants to deal with, so if you learn how to keep him from cheating in the first place, hopefully you’ll never have to:

Take off the leash

If you outright forbid a man from looking at/meeting/talking to other women, he’ll go right the opposite direction.

The more strict you get with rules like this in your relationship, the more he’ll feel his freedom restricted and want to break them.

Women who are internally secure are sexy. If your man feels smothered by you, he’ll be more likely to wander astray to re-assert his freedom.

Pack out your own life

If you are prone to suspicion, ask yourself: Why are you spending all your time obsessing over what your man is up to?

If you want to keep your man, you need to surround yourself with good friends, hobbies, rewarding work.

In other words, keep your man from cheating by keeping your own life!

Let him realize on his own that you’re the only women he wants to be with.

Are things staying sexy?

I really hoped I could keep old clichéd dating phrases like “spicing things up” out of these articles.

But seriously, is there still surprise in your relationship? Has sex gotten tiresomely predictable? Have you got no new moves to teach each other (in and out of the bedroom!)?

One reason men cheat is because their life has become so dull they just need to go out and feel something different!

This is the need for VARIETY – But the great thing is, you can create that feeling yourself. Little gifts, new places, fun dates, surprise holidays – Keep your man guessing!

Think creatively about your relationship and keep mixing things up and your man won’t feel like he’s in Groundhog Day, living the same stuff over and over again!

Make him feel wanted

Men cheat because they don’t feel wanted.

Sometimes women get so caught up in a cycle of game-playing that their man starts feeling unappreciated.

Men want to feel like their woman still fancies them; it’s this need that gets satisfied when they sleep with other women.

When a man feels left out and unwanted in his own relationship, he’ll feel the need to validate himself by sleeping with other women to feel like a man again.

Hopefully cheating isn‘t a worry you‘ll have to deal with, but if you understand why it happens in the first place you’ll have the ability to ensure your relationship never reaches that position.

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