Last episode we talked about how to respond to a flakey guy using “Bliss Point” text messages – which combines being salty and sweet to make someone WANT to pursue you and live up to your standards. 

Except… Some of the more angry responses said things like: “Matt, why would I even think about being sweet to a guy who flakes on a date?? He should be chasing me already, and if not, I have a right to be angry when I text back…”

To tell you the truth, I’m really glad these comments came up (and I kind of expected it). In this week’s podcast, we explain why this response relates to a huge mistake 99% of people make in dating. Make sure you don’t fall into this common trap…

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