In the modern world we are taught to look for the optimum choice in every situation.

The perfect morning routine for us, the perfect career, the perfect house, and even the perfect relationship?

But is this the right way to think about looking for a romantic partner? We want high standards, but what things (if any) should we settle on in a relationship? 

In this episode, Matthew talks about how to practically look for love in the modern world and what it takes to build a lasting healthy relationship. 

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