You’re on a date with someone. You’re both sharing stories.  He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he tells you about playing his first gig. Then without missing a moment, you start enthusiastically telling him about your friend who’s also in a band, is the best guitarist you’ve ever seen, and has just released and album. Suddenly, his eyes narrow and he seems emotionally checked out, maybe even less interested. Why? What happened? In this episode with my brother Stephen, I’m going to reveal a simple flirting mistake that is all too easily made, and why it’s can be such a turnoff to guys in dating. — >>> Want to learn more about the psychology of attraction in dating? Download a free chapter of our bestselling program at