So you’re having trouble meeting men, and you’re wondering if it’s because you’re too picky.  “But I’m looking for ‘The One,’” you think. “Shouldn’t I have high standards?”  The short answer is yes, but you may be enforcing those standards too soon.  In this episode of LOVE Life, I explain the danger of being too selective when you first meet men, how to avoid the “Christian Grey” trap, and how changing your relationship with rejection can steer you away from Mr. Not Good Enough and straight towards your Mr. Right.