(Be warned: This is not a content piece. This is as many words in as I could get on The Today Show with the incredible Kathie Lee and Hoda!)
Questions
–Should you try online dating? (try it but don’t rely on it)
–What should you do if a guy stays in touch with his ex? (communicate your standard and what you feel comfortable with)
–My guy is a terrible dresser. How can I get him to change his look without offending him? (give him a specific compliment and tell him something turns you on)
Matthew’s advise how to change one’s boyfriends outfit is really great. It is really so powerful! If somebody tells me this, I will almost surely stick to the clothing.
Another great advise and powerful technique by Matthew!
Thank you for all the wonderful things you share wish us here and also in the “Get the guy” book!
Wish you all the best !
Great piece on the show. Very entertaining and also managed to enjoy Matthew’s sound advice. Not sure how you managed to get even a few words in Matthew, but I guess you have mastered the art of working with women :P
I have tried the on-line dating and in doing this I have used the same advice that Matthew teaches for regular dating. I set my standards, if I am not comfortable with something, I do not continue, I indicate that my purpose is to meet with someone outside the venue in question and after an adequate amount of messaging if they want to continue a dialogue with me, they would have to meet me in person. I will see what happens. I think it is important to set these standards in all areas of our lives and this exercise has been very helpful for me:)
Hi Matthew! I comment here or on YouTube/FB once in a blue moon but I wanted to say how great it is you are getting more and more frequent mainstream publicity. Infrequent commenter but active supporter: I grabbed your book and watched the show (and will hopefully grab Man Myth at a later date). What I love and appreciate the most is the positivity you are putting into the world. Really happy for all your (continued) success!
Matt,
I’m sick of dating men that just want me for sex. You seem perfect! Will you come to Boston and marry me?
Luv,
LISA
When is you show airing on NBC? Are you doing another one? Please let me know when it will be airing! I live 1/2 hr. north of Boston btw. Would be happy to show you around haha
Matt is 100% correct when he says that you should be more worried about a guy who hates all of his exes. I know because I’ve dated that guy and he made my life a living nightmare for years after I broke up with him. You see, I became another “evil ex” whom he none the less was determined to get back regardless of how I felt about it. I’m not saying they’re all crazy. I dated another guy who wasn’t but still constantly talked shit about other girls he had dated and that also ended badly. Following those relationships, I’d almost go so far as to say that I would not date a guy who wasn’t friends with any of his exes.
My bad, he said “person”, not guy specifically. It does go both ways.
God, they were cackling so much, he couldn’t get a word in. What’s the point of having a relationship expert on the show if you’re not gonna let him speak. I’m interested in what he has to say. Oh well, there’s always the book :)
what terrible bitches!
i loved it :) soooooooo cool :) u r a natural Mat:) R u a Gemini taurus by any chance ????
I think it’s great you have a spot on “The Today Show” although I have to agree with many of the other comments. It’s frustrating to try and listen with what you have to say when Kathy Lee consistently interrupts every second she gets. It’s unfortunate…
hhhhhhhhhhhhhh funny show i liked it and i liked your advices :)