I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incredibly powerful story with you today.
She faced one of the most difficult, biggest setbacks I could ever imagine in her love life, and came to me for advice on how to get a guy to like her as more than a friend.
Maybe you struggle with your own insecurities (like I do).
This video is going to give you the #1 practical mindset shift to shatter those pesky doubts within minutes…
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That was BEAUTIFUL. Probably THE BEST video so far. This really resonated with me and I feel more people should see this. Your truly a life changer Matt, God bless you xx
Wow. Thank you Matthew, that was an amazing video on perspective, it touched my heart. You are a true blessing and I am so thankful for you.
Matthew,
Thank you for this reminder. I have been fortunate to have similar types of experiences on a shift of perspective in daily life, but in dating and love it is harder to step into another’s shoes and see just how good you have it. Falling in love with myself has been one of the hardest journey’s for me personally, yet I know there is much to be grateful for in all of my life’s problems and lessons. Thank you.
One of my best male friends met a lady on the phone & they hit it off. He told me he’d met his soul mate but had no clue what she looked like. They met and she was in a wheel chair. But it was love & what a journey that most men wouldn’t take on. Together they traveled as he looked after her and provided her with the best time she’d had since contracting motor neuron 8 years earlier. She couldn’t go anywhere really either. And she met my friend who took her swimming with dolphins and all sorts amazing bucket list adventures. They were such a beautiful couple and even got married. She died before their 1st anniversary. I know most men aren’t like my friend he is a diamond, but I hope the lady you spoke of does meet someone, it can happen.
Wow!
Simply beautiful.
I hope he is able to find peace in his life and can forever cherish the memories made with his soulmate
I really needed to see this video. I’ve recently lost my medical insurance and cannot afford my depression and anxiety medication anymore. Ive been on it for 8 years. I’ve been feeling sorry for myself and feeling hopeless from time to time. But at least i can walk. I can use the restroom by myself. Im beautiful and kind and thats what i need to hold onto. The fact that I can walk down the street and know that no one is pitying me bc my issues are on the inside is a blessing. I can do everything physically on my own. I love you Matt. Thank you so much.
Thank you so much for this video Matthew. I hate the way I look, I hate my height (not even 5 foot) and constantly feel ugly and comparing myself to others. This has given me perspective to not be so inward looking. Thank you.
I think you are beautiful.
Wow!
Simply beautiful.
I hope he is able to find peace in his life and can forever cherish the memories made with his soulmate
I just realised what it takes to convince a person of the right attitude to take its not simply about hearing good advice, it’s about dwelling on the advice long enough and perhaps going back to past relationships of where wthee really liked the wrong man. We obviouslviouslynhad our hunc that they wrong for us, yet we fell into the idea of being in love and as a result we did invest emotionally, sacrificed our time and perhaps even finances to show how we cared. We should have learned Rom thes experiences already that a wrong man is not going to change.a wrong man can be a nice guy too. But if the exchange is not reciprocated, which we have always be cognizant of, yet CHOSE to stay in the relationship out of ouremotional need or sex base, we would really not be able to hide it even if we tried. The man in turn does not love or respect us or may be going or weak. The reason why he is weak, is because whatever it is he is about, he is insecure of ending the relationship completely as they need us for the insecurities they are going through but can’t be independent enough. Why I say this, is that if he is not giving enough of his time to us, then he is giving it to someone else. And there are obvious issues in that relationship too. Perhaps he can’t become totally independant and he needs what this person brings to the relationship even he may not be be emotionally close to that person. The chances are that if he is convinced that you may be able to a,so bring to the relationship what this other woman is bringing, then he ma end up making you his only woman. But if are a strong woman, you would not want for a guy to be dependant in that way. If you are a strong inependant woman, you would not eat range yourself from your standards. A strong woman is prepared to spend nights alone out cold. A strong woman decides irrespective of losing her man, to end the relatiinship. A strong woman never settles for a casual relationship or friends with benefits situation irrespective of how much it is given credits for in movies or elsewhere. Because what happens to you when that moment is over. We are single. And if any relationship makes us feel like we are single, it simply is not going anywher. What happens in that time? We close ourselves from opportunities of the right guy finding us.
A strong woman realises it is better to be alone than to settle for a guy who is not bringing value in our lives as well as investing emotionally.
The reason these guys do that to us, is because we have set precedent to to making all the effort in the re,ationship, that they convinced themselves they they don’t need to do any work at all.
Bottom line, we need to stop wasting valuable time in the wrong men and free ourselves of becoming the greater version of ourselves. What we put in the universe will come back back to us ten fold.
I understand the truth only about two hours ago after I read a book as well as been listening Matthew’s videos.
A strong woman maintains her responsibilities, is independant , not to stay in a relationship she is miserable in. Some strong woman may even be a threat to many egotistical men out there as they realise that we do it all on our own and may not be de
Not be dependent on them for other things. So they end up be I g a bit withdrawn from us. It could be that they are challenged by our worth and I’m not referring to financial worth here. It could be our being in tune with our values, not compromising on our standards and always improving ourselves to become the greater version of ourselves.
Once again thank you Mattew I just got carried away with my reply.
Thank you so much.
What you said in this video really touched my heart and I just broke into tears.
Sometimes we forget how blessed we are.
I needed to hear this :)
Thank you once again.