How many times have you panicked before sending a text to a guy you like because you were afraid he’d reject you? How many times have you felt paralyzed without the right words, worried that you’d give him the wrong impression or say something that would backfire?
over every text or email… replaying the words, wishing you’d said things differently.
because you’re worried it
will backfire.
because it just seems too confusing and too complicated.
This is exactly why I created How to Talk to Men. My quick-start guide includes 59 scripts you can customize in every situation – from flirting, to first dates, to texting and beyond.
These perfectly-crafted examples go beyond theory to show you how to take quick, confident action in your love life and get incredible results with men.
Poor communication is to blame for 99% of problems in new and existing relationships. If we express ourselves badly, we upset people or drive them away. Or we fail to say what we honestly mean and get less than we deserve – no one wants that. And because we never learn another way of communicating, we can get stuck repeating the behaviors that are sabotaging our love lives…
My sample scripts cover EVERY stage of dating and relationships (even the trickiest ones). You’ll never be caught off guard without knowing what to say again.
I give you perfectly-crafted sample scripts for every text or conversation. The point is not to use them verbatim (although you could!). I teach you the principles behind WHY they work, so you can make them your own… and get the results you deserve!
Because I teach you WHY the words work, not just WHAT to say, you’ll always have a “True North” on your Communication Compass; equipped to handle anything that comes at you in the future.
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I’ve Helped Millions of Women Get the Relationships They Deserve With Practical, Proven Advice
As the leading dating authority and confidence coach for women, I’ve helped millions of women get the love life of their dreams through my New York Times bestselling book, sold-out live seminars, and step-by-step online coaching and training videos. And I’ll do the same for you.
My approach is honest, authentic and practical; so that you not only get the relationship you deserve but feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
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I was graduating from high school when I purchased my first program, Impact. It was one of my most life-transformative experiences. Being part of this program allows me to stay accountable with myself, no matter the highs or lows in my day. It makes me feel less alone in this transformational journey. I know things can only move forward by progressing 1% better everyday.
Your tips worked! By the time I met my now fiancé online, I was super happy, self-assured and had a funny, friendly, flirty style that my fiancé said made me stand out as the most interesting girl he was talking to. And even though I’m plus sized, my fiancé tells me daily that I’m gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and radiant. I’ve never felt so desired. I learned a lot about love and life on this journey, so thank you, Matt. I will always think of you as my teacher, mentor, and friend.
I first came across Matthew through his podcast on Spotify. At that time, all I knew was that I was feeling lost and needed some guidance. Fast forward 5 years, I’m the most ‘me’ I’ve ever felt. I set my own standards and expectations with how I want to live my life and what I want to achieve. I have the confidence to help other people. I have the confidence to try anything I want.
I am more empowered than I ever was in my entire 44 years of existence. I turn 45 this coming Wednesday, and I am happy I married the man I wanted.
We dated for 6 months. Broke up. Then I did Matthew’s advice on Get Him Running Back to You, and he did come back after a month and a half on Christmas eve. He proposed to me. 6 months later we were married.
In 2017, I decided to join the VIP program. Going through the program and virtually memorizing everything helped me finally make the decision that I was worth more than this and in July 2020, I ended my 17-year toxic relationship. Since the Virtual Retreat, I stayed on my path of growth, self love, and self worth.
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Since the Retreat, I have been living my best life. I am so happy with who I am. I took everything I learned from that Retreat and what Matthew said and I took those tools and put it into my everyday life now. I’m the best version of myself and the happiest I’ve ever felt.
My current story is learning to live by myself again and get a strong support system to help with those weak moments. When I don’t have my support available, then I reach for your books or listen to your webcasts to remind me I deserve better. Each day gets better and I know I will be able to walk without turning back soon. Thank you for your programs, videos, and advice.
I wouldn’t be where I am today without Matt as my coach and mentor. I am now brave enough to let go of the wrong guys, I respect my feelings and needs and trust my gut. Knowing that Matt has a loving community here makes me feel safe and supported, and I’m grateful for everything!
I was able to apply your approaches to a recent job interview. I used your concept of not over investing in the job and I focused on bringing the best version of myself to the table. I was offered the job and told that they loved how authentic I was. Thank you for helping me get out of my own head and way.
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If you’re coming to the Retreat this year, you’re in for a special treat. The Retreat is about living your best life and having confidence and going after what you want, and they give you the tools to do that. You make friendships, you have experiences that you can’t even imagine. I came out after the Retreat feeling the most amazing I’ve ever felt in my life – I didn’t want to leave. 8 months later, my life has completely changed.
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Matthew Hussey and his team have provided me with so many new skills that I use on a day to day basis that help me really love the life that I’m living. The Matthew Hussey Retreat is one in a million. I can’t put into words how grateful I am for this experience. I truly believe that every woman should go on this retreat because it changed my life and I know it will change yours.
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You’re gonna have the greatest time. Before the Retreat, I had a lot of emotional pain that I wasn’t able to get over. Since the Retreat, I’ve become so free. I was able to confront that pain and release that pain, and I’m free of that emotional pain now and I don’t carry it with me anymore.
Matthew has completely changed my life!! I read Get the Guy when I was a single mother of two, truly struggling with the dating scene and giving my very limited time to all the wrong men.
I had a lot going for me but I didn’t really know until Mathew made me see it. I had a huge mental shift. Within weeks I met and managed to keep my now husband who I must say is quite the catch.
I became acquainted with Matt’s remarkable work through his free webinar in July. This led me to sign up to the Love.Life membership. I have never looked back since. I still haven’t found Mr. Right, but my mind has opened up since being introduced to Matt’s work. His consistent advice on focusing on the present and to relax and enjoy dates has really been drilled into me.
I used to be so focused on finding a guy. I was over investing and not building a life of my own. Now, I just turned 30 and I could not be more excited about all of the changes. I’m building a brand new blueprint for my life. My plan B has become my plan A. Ten years ago, I expected to be married with kids at this point, but I’m still single and I couldn’t be more happy!
I’ve followed Matthew for some time and I’m now a Love. Life member. I attended the Virtual Retreat in March 2021 which has helped me to release past pain and look forward to my future. It has also helped me in trying to shed people-pleasing tendencies. I am able to reframe negative thoughts more quickly. I have more resilience in dating and more faith in abundance.
Since I started Matthew’s programs, I realized I needed to work more on my own life. Confidence developed, especially after completing Attraction to Commitment and the Virtual Retreat. I’m now in a new healthy relationship and living a full life I love! Identifying happiness criteria, connecting with a global community and nurturing core confidence rebooted my life! THANK YOU!
I am the one who proposed and he said yes. The next day he had a ring and proposed right back. So many things have changed for me. I don’t take s**t from anyone anymore. I realized that I was a pushover and people used to take advantage of my kindness. I am still kind now, but firm with my boundaries.
I was graduating from high school when I purchased my first program, Impact. It was one of my most life-transformative experiences. Being part of this program allows me to stay accountable with myself, no matter the highs or lows in my day. It makes me feel less alone in this transformational journey. I know things can only move forward by progressing 1% better everyday.
Your tips worked! By the time I met my now fiancé online, I was super happy, self-assured and had a funny, friendly, flirty style that my fiancé said made me stand out as the most interesting girl he was talking to. And even though I’m plus sized, my fiancé tells me daily that I’m gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and radiant. I’ve never felt so desired. I learned a lot about love and life on this journey, so thank you, Matt. I will always think of you as my teacher, mentor, and friend.
I first came across Matthew through his podcast on Spotify. At that time, all I knew was that I was feeling lost and needed some guidance. Fast forward 5 years, I’m the most ‘me’ I’ve ever felt. I set my own standards and expectations with how I want to live my life and what I want to achieve. I have the confidence to help other people. I have the confidence to try anything I want.
I am more empowered than I ever was in my entire 44 years of existence. I turn 45 this coming Wednesday, and I am happy I married the man I wanted.
We dated for 6 months. Broke up. Then I did Matthew’s advice on Get Him Running Back to You, and he did come back after a month and a half on Christmas eve. He proposed to me. 6 months later we were married.
In 2017, I decided to join the VIP program. Going through the program and virtually memorizing everything helped me finally make the decision that I was worth more than this and in July 2020, I ended my 17-year toxic relationship. Since the Virtual Retreat, I stayed on my path of growth, self love, and self worth.
The truth is, being successful in dating and relationships is not simply about confidence in who we are, it’s about competence in what we do. And most people (women and men) never learn how to communicate effectively.
There are very specific words and phrases we can say to a person to increase attraction. And, if we’re not careful, there are things we can accidentally say to decrease attraction.
If you don’t know the right words to say, you can’t communicate who you REALLY are in the most attractive, compelling way. And even more frustrating is when the man you’re interested in ends up with another woman (maybe even one who isn’t as good a match) because she knows this language of attraction.
You’re right. It’s not fair. So let’s level the playing field…
…I’ll show you How to Talk to Men and then YOU’LL win over other women because you’ll have BOTH: True warmth AND the ability to create and keep attraction through your language.
Every single one of the 59 scripts is a masterclass in the art of communication and psychology so you can assert yourself in a way that makes you even more irresistible to high-quality men.
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Proven scripts that get you results, based on over a decade of coaching and research on love and the psychology of passionate relationships.
Over a dozen real-life texting-with-a-guy scenarios that teach you how to respond in a way that sets you apart from every other woman he has ever dated.
The 5 most important – but rarely used – compliments any man needs to hear to get him addicted to you. In this handy guide, I’ll show you how to use male psychology to flip his attraction switches whenever you choose.
How to pre-screen your dates (so you can STOP wasting your time) by asking these 4 revealing questions on a 5-minute phone call. If he fails these questions, don’t date him! If he answers correctly, you know he’s a keeper. All in 5 minutes!
How to create the most perfect dating profile ever with a real world example. Line by line, I’ll show you exactly what makes this case study so compelling, so you can tweak your profile for better results.
The 10 most effective texts you can send to any man – in all kinds of situations – in this handy cheat-sheet you can keep in your wallet or purse. You’ll never be caught without something perfect to say!
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