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Frequently Asked Questions

What does Get The Guy do?

Get The Guy is a formula developed since my work as a speaker and coach; my career has always been dedicated to helping people reach their goals in the shortest time possible, whilst making the journey exciting and compelling.

The Get The Guy concept was born from a desire to transform the love lives of women who felt they were worth more than the results they were currently getting.

So what’s the formula?

We work on a three-part structure:

1. Find the Guy
2. Get the Guy
3. Keep the Guy

From my experience women struggle in one or more of these areas.

In our flagship ‘Women’s Weekend’ events we go from start to finish. From finding him, attracting him, and getting him to WANT to be in a relationship with you.

What can a guy teach me about the problems women go through?

We were sick of reading all of the cheesy, generalized nonsense that women were being fed on a daily basis.

Through my work coaching thousands of men in this area of their lives, you can believe me when I say that no-one had more knowledge about how the male mind operates and what attracts men than we do.

Aren’t you sick of hearing advice from people who don’t really have a clue about what actually makes men tick?

That’s where we come in.

Is this just for desperate women who can’t find a man?

Absolutely not!

This is for anyone who can look honestly at their love life right now and say “I know I can do better than this! I know I deserve better than where I am right now!”

No matter where we think we are now there is always another level we can reach. Whether you need a complete overhaul of your confidence, or just fancy fine-tuning your love life by learning some new tips and techniques, we can get you there.

Is this the usual self-help motivational stuff I’ve heard before like “be yourself”?

No! Phrases like “just be confident” and “just be yourself” are what glossy magazines pump out all the time.

And I know what you’re thinking: “I’ve been myself for years and it’s not solved all my relationship problems yet!”


What these magazines never tell you is how to be your best self. The sexy, confident you that you know exists somewhere inside but you can’t coach out of yourself.

The good news is that we can.

At our events we show you how to build a lifestyle that will help you effortlessly attract great men into your life.

What do you do at your events?

Our ‘Secrets of Attraction’ event is a taster event where you can come and see Matt in action and find out the skills we teach that have been transforming women’s dating lives all over the world.

Our ‘Women’s Weekend’ is a full weekend where we literally take you from start to finish. Two days full of our absolute best content, in which Matt and the Get The Guy trainers really get into your specific issues with men and take you through the exact steps to handling your love life RIGHT NOW.

I’m already comfortable getting dates from men. Is there anything else you can teach me?

More than you can imagine!

This isn’t just a “get a date in 10 days” service.

Because as we all know, getting a date is only the first step. Getting the GUY in the long term takes much more; it takes:

An understanding of how the male mind works and how you can use it to your advantage.

An understanding of why guys can “go cold” after a few dates, and what really makes them want to stay around for the long-term.

How to stop a relationship from “losing that spark” so that he STAYS attracted to you instead of looking elsewhere.